{"id":8934,"date":"2011-02-15T05:00:40","date_gmt":"2011-02-15T11:00:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/michaelhyatt.com\/?p=8934"},"modified":"2011-02-15T05:00:40","modified_gmt":"2011-02-15T11:00:40","slug":"notes-from-my-speech-coach","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fullfocus.co\/notes-from-my-speech-coach\/","title":{"rendered":"Notes from My Speech Coach"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Last week, I spoke at the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.recreateconference.com\/\" title=\"Re:create Conference 2011\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Re:create 2011 Conference<\/a> in Franklin, Tennessee. This is an annual conference for Christian &ldquo;creatives&rdquo; (e.g., worship leaders, recording artists, book authors, actors, etc.). I talked about the #1 challenge these creatives face: becoming bitter over unwarranted criticism.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/fullfocus.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/02\/iStock_000007152512Small.jpg\" alt=\"Speakers View of an Audience Photo courtesy of &copy;iStockphoto.com\/Sean_Warren, Image #7152512\" title=\"iStock_000007152512Small.jpg\" border=\"0\" width=\"570\" height=\"381\" \/><\/p>\n<div style=\"font-family:arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size:10px; line-height:12px; margin-bottom:10px; margin-top:-12px; padding:0px; text-align:center; width:570px;\">Photo courtesy of &copy;iStockphoto.com\/Sean_Warren<\/div>\n<p>A few days after the conference, my friend <a href=\"http:\/\/www.kendavis.com\/\" title=\"Ken Davis&rsquo; Web site\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Ken Davis<\/a>, who was also a speaker at the conference, gave me some valuable feedback on my speech. In addition to being an enormously gifted speaker himself, Ken is a speech coach. He also hosts the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.dynamiccommunicators.com\/\" title=\"The Dynamic Communicators Workshop\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Dynamic Communicators Summit<\/a> and the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.communicatorsummit.com\/\" title=\"The Professional Communicators Summit\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Professional Communicators Summit<\/a>, two conferences designed for professional speakers.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n\n<p>I was eager to hear what Ken had to say, because he is one of my top five favorite speakers. I have also attended his <a href=\"http:\/\/www.communicatorsummit.com\/\" title=\"The Professional Communicators Summit\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Professional Communicators Summit<\/a> and loved it. We sat down at a local restaurant for a one-on-one coaching session.<\/p>\n<p>He was very affirming, but he also had five great suggestions for me. If you do any public speaking, perhaps these will be helpful to you, too:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><strong>State the benefit clearly.<\/strong> I had a pretty clear premise (I thought), but I neglected to make the benefits clear. In my speech I said, &#8220;There are three truths you must embrace in dealing with offenses.&rdquo; Ken said, &ldquo;So what? What&rsquo;s the benefit?&rdquo; A better premise is this: &ldquo;If you want to realize your full potential as a Christian creative, you must embrace three truths about dealing with unwarranted criticism.&rdquo;<\/li>\n<li><strong>Cut my intro down.<\/strong> I had a good opening. It was warm and pretty funny. However, it was too long. Ken felt I should remove the information that people know or could discover in <a href=\"https:\/\/michaelhyatt.com\/speaking\" title=\"https:\/\/michaelhyatt.com\/about\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">my public bio<\/a>. Instead, I need to share the details they wouldn&rsquo;t know. This adds an element of surprise and connects me emotionally with my audience&mdash;especially if I can throw in some humor.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Use more personal stories.<\/strong> I had some personal stories, but Ken felt I needed more. I know he's right. This is my primary complaint with most of the speakers I hear. The problem is that it takes <em>a lot<\/em> of personal reflection to find great, relevant stories. Ken also suggested that the more I can share about my weaknesses, the more people will relate.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Engage the audience.<\/strong> I didn't engage the audience at all. Ken felt that this was a missed opportunity. He suggested I ask the audience questions. For example, before each major point, I could ask, &ldquo;Do you want to realize your full potential as a Christian creative?&rdquo; Then wait on a response. Then I could repeat my previous point and move on to the next one.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Craft the ending carefully.<\/strong> I had spent a lot of time on the beginning of the speech. (I had just finished a great book called <em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/exec\/obidos\/ASIN\/061524520X\/fwis-20\" title=\"Amazon: Better Beginnings: How to Capture Your Audience in 30 Seconds\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Better Beginnings: How to Capture Your Audience in 30 Seconds<\/a><\/em> that I found particularly helpful.) This is important, because first impressions really matter. However, the last impression is even <em>more<\/em> important. Ken reminded me that I need to spend as much time on the ending as the beginning.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>I am really excited that I get to give this same speech soon. With Ken's help, I am hoping to take it to the next level. I have also registered for the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.dynamiccommunicators.com\/\" title=\"The Dynamic Communicators Workshop\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Dynamic Communicators Summit<\/a>. Ken&rsquo;s <a href=\"http:\/\/www.communicatorsummit.com\/\" title=\"The Professional Communicators Summit\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">other workshop<\/a> focuses on the business side of speaking. This one focuses on crafting the message. I can&rsquo;t wait!<\/p>\n<div style=\"color:#000033; font-style:italic;font-weight:bold;margin-bottom:16px;\">Question: What are three adjustments you could make to your speaking to take it to the next level? You can leave a comment by <a href=\"https:\/\/michaelhyatt.com\/notes-from-my-speech-coach.html#respond\">clicking here<\/a>.<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My friend Ken Davis is a world-class professional speaker and speech coach. 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