{"id":39435,"date":"2017-12-19T04:45:22","date_gmt":"2017-12-19T10:45:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/michaelhyatt.com\/?p=39435"},"modified":"2017-12-19T04:45:22","modified_gmt":"2017-12-19T10:45:22","slug":"pettiness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fullfocus.co\/pettiness\/","title":{"rendered":"What Ebenezer Scrooge Can Teach Us About Generosity"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Pettiness is a word that is on the way out. Google Books shows its usage down sharply since the middle of the 1960s, and many people have a hard time getting a handle on it today. That\u2019s a shame because it\u2019s an important term. It may be impossible to understand much of our recent public discourse\u2014or an enduring holiday classic\u2014without it.<\/p>\n<p>Take Charles Dickens\u2019s <em>A Christmas Carol<\/em>. What was Ebenezer Scrooge\u2019s main character flaw, or besetting sin? Was he greedy, miserly, envious, spiteful, misanthropic? Above all, he was petty. It\u2019s the morally-loaded counterpart to small. You can hear its echo in <em>petite<\/em>, which is closer to the original French loan word.<\/p>\n<p>In the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.gutenberg.org\/files\/46\/46-h\/46-h.htm\">opening scene<\/a> of the story, the sole living proprietor of Scrooge and Marley doesn\u2019t allow more than one lump of coal to warm his poor, shivering clerk\u2019s work area. He also frequently insults and threatens to fire his employee, and holds his near-poverty over his head.<\/p>\n<p>Scrooge answers his visiting nephew\u2019s \u201cMerry Christmas! God save you!\u201d with what in 1843 must have been a shocking \u201cBah! Humbug!\u201d (This would be \u201cBah! BS!\u201d or worse in modern American English. The word means nonsense, but it's a bit rougher.) He mocks love as a reason for his relation\u2019s marriage. He refuses to come see his own kin for dinner. Having established\u2014and then some!\u2014that he despises Christmas, the man then refuses to return his nephew\u2019s \u201cHappy New Year.\u201d<\/p>\n<h3>The big problem with being small<\/h3>\n<p>In all of these things and so many more, Ebenezer Scrooge was petty. I was going to write \u201cunbelievably petty,\u201d but if you strip away some of Dickens\u2019s cartoonish exaggeration (\u201cEven the blind men\u2019s dogs\u201d avoided him), it's not so unbelievable. Such pettiness is on full display today. Just scroll down your social media feed, and be sure to include your own posts and comments and Twitterpations in that inventory.<\/p>\n<p>If we belittle people for their station in life, like Scrooge does, we are being petty. If we plant ourselves on a molehill and make a mountain out of it, we are being petty. If we cut off contact with relatives over trifles or hoard abundant resources for no good reason or respond to others\u2019 genuine gestures of goodwill by mocking them, we are being petty. And this is not a harmless vice.<\/p>\n<p>One of Dickens\u2019s real insights into Scrooge, and by extension us, is that any benefit we derive from pettiness is terribly short lived. By being so small toward others, we diminish ourselves in numerous ways. It crimps our personalities and our vision. Scrooge is proud and miserable and terribly shortsighted. He has his money and his pride and a razor tongue\u2014and that\u2019s about it. With the exception of his nephew, most of the living have given up on seeing him as anything other than something like a ravenous loan shark.<\/p>\n\t\t<aside class=\"tweetable tweetalign_center\" style=\"width:100%\">\n\t\t\t<blockquote>\n\t\t\t\tOne of Dickens\u2019s real insights into Scrooge, and by extension us, is that any benefit we derive from pettiness is terribly short lived.<cite>Jeremy Lott<\/cite>\n\t\t\t<\/blockquote>\t\t\t<ul class=\"actions\">\n\t\t\t\t<li class=\"icon-arrow\"><a class=\"icon-twitter\" href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?source=tweetbutton&text=One%20of%20Dickens%27s%20real%20insights%20into%20Scrooge%2C%20and%20by%20extension%20us%2C%20is%20that%20any%20benefit%20we%20derive%20from%20pettiness%20is%20terribly%20short%20lived.%20https%3A%2F%2Ffullfocus.co%2F%3Fp%3D39435&via=michaelhyatt\" title=\"Share Quote on Twitter\" target=\"_blank\">Tweet<span> Quote<\/span><\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/aside>\n<p>And he\u2019s too petty to see that he ought to be getting more out of life. \u201cThere are many things from which I might have derived good, by which I have not profited,\u201d says the nephew, sensibly. Scrooge retorts by again threatening to fire his clerk and calling his relative a lousy politician.<\/p>\n<p>Even when he is visited by the ghost of his dead partner, chained down and damned by his own sins, Scrooge can\u2019t see his own cramped, narrow error. It takes the frightening visions of the three Christmas ghosts to finally bring him back to a larger vision of his fellow man, and himself in the process.<\/p>\n<h3>Petty no more<\/h3>\n<p>Scrooge\u2019s story may be extreme, but his experience is not alien to us. That\u2019s one reason why Dickens\u2019s story was such a hit. As this time of year, perhaps encouraged along by one of the many adaptations of <em>A Christmas Carol<\/em>, many of us take some to reflect on how we have behaved. We make a sort of moral inventory: What did we do right? What did we miss? What can we do better?<\/p>\n<p>Let me suggest pettiness ought to be on the list of vices we consign to the Ghost of Christmas Past. Do you say \u201cYes!\u201d or \u201cBah! Humbug!\u201d to that?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Pettiness is a word that is on the way out. Google Books shows its usage down sharply since the middle of the 1960s, and many people have a hard time getting a handle on it today. That\u2019s a shame because it\u2019s an important term. 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