{"id":39314,"date":"2017-12-12T04:45:11","date_gmt":"2017-12-12T10:45:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/michaelhyatt.com\/?p=39314"},"modified":"2017-12-12T04:45:11","modified_gmt":"2017-12-12T10:45:11","slug":"self-doubt","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fullfocus.co\/self-doubt\/","title":{"rendered":"4 Steps for Dealing with Self-Doubt"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It's natural to feel like an imposter sometimes. But don't dwell on your self-doubt. Instead, the solution is to recognize your feelings as a healthy part of your professional and personal development, realize that other successful people feel the same way, understand that you already have the strengths needed, and use this fear as a tool for making even greater strides in your progression in life.<\/p>\n<p>I know. Easier said than done, right? There are those times when you feel like you're faking it, even as you succeed in launching a new business or project. Mark Zuckerberg felt that a few years after launching Facebook, when others were telling him to sell the business to other firms instead of sticking to his plan to keep the social media giant independent. \u201cI wondered if I was just wrong, an imposter, a twenty-two-year-old kid who had no idea how the world worked,&#8221; he admitted.<\/p>\n<p>Then there are those soul-crushing moments of adversity that make you wonder whether you will ever achieve your purpose. Former President Barack Obama felt that way in 2000 when he \u201cgot whupped\u201d in his effort to defeat incumbent Congressman Bobby Rush. At that point, the future president thought \u201cfor me to run and lose that bad\u2026 maybe this isn\u2019t what I was cut out to do.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/fullfocus.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/GettyImages-868760972.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1920\" height=\"1280\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-39394\" srcset=\"https:\/\/fullfocus.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/GettyImages-868760972.jpg 1920w, https:\/\/fullfocus.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/GettyImages-868760972-600x400.jpg 600w, https:\/\/fullfocus.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/GettyImages-868760972-1400x933.jpg 1400w, https:\/\/fullfocus.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/GettyImages-868760972-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/fullfocus.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/GettyImages-868760972-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/fullfocus.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/GettyImages-868760972-1200x800.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1920px) 100vw, 1920px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When left unchecked, self-doubt can either make you indecisive on important issues or, worse, cause you to act out against colleagues and loved ones who have your back. But as Zuckerberg, Obama, and other leaders have shown, it doesn\u2019t have to be that way. By taking four steps, you will not only learn to deal with self-doubt but leverage it as part of your growth in all aspects of your life.<\/p>\n<h3>1. Accept it\u2014self-doubt is normal<\/h3>\n<p>Society makes it seem like certainty and self-confidence the norm. But as a team led by Reed College Psychology Professor Kathryn Oleson determined in a 2012 study, self-doubt is the normal consequence of the realization that life is filled with uncertainty. Even when things are great, the possibility of layoffs, business failures, even debilitating illness, can be around the corner.<\/p>\n<p>Self-doubt also comes as you take on new challenges and opportunities. After all, to paraphrase the disclaimer on many a mutual fund, past performance is not indicative of future results. This is especially true when a new venture takes you out of your areas of expertise and, more importantly, your comfort zone.<\/p>\n\t\t<aside class=\"tweetable tweetalign_center\" style=\"width:100%\">\n\t\t\t<blockquote>\n\t\t\t\tThere is nothing unusual or even necessarily unhealthy about having twinges of self-doubt.<cite>Rishawn Biddle<\/cite>\n\t\t\t<\/blockquote>\t\t\t<ul class=\"actions\">\n\t\t\t\t<li class=\"icon-arrow\"><a class=\"icon-twitter\" href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?source=tweetbutton&text=There%20is%20nothing%20unusual%20or%20even%20necessarily%20unhealthy%20about%20having%20twinges%20of%20self-doubt.%20https%3A%2F%2Ffullfocus.co%2F%3Fp%3D39314&via=michaelhyatt\" title=\"Share Quote on Twitter\" target=\"_blank\">Tweet<span> Quote<\/span><\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/aside>\n<p>Simply put, there is nothing unusual or even necessarily unhealthy about having twinges of self-doubt. If anything, you should be worried about not having any doubts at all. If you don\u2019t have any self-doubt about anything you do, then you aren\u2019t stretching and progressing. James Cameron was right when he said that \u201cno important endeavor that required innovation was done without risk.\u201d<\/p>\n<h3>2. Realize everybody else thinks they\u2019re faking it, too<\/h3>\n<p>Despite all of her success, poet Maya Angelou always feared that she wasn\u2019t good enough. As she once admitted: \u201cI have written eleven books, but each time I think, &#8216;Uh-oh, they\u2019re going to find out now. I\u2019ve run a game on everybody, and they\u2019re going to find me out.'\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Facebook Chief Operating Officer Sheryl Sandberg has a long record of success that includes serving as chief of staff to former Treasury Secretary Laurence Summers, and overseeing Google\u2019s global sales operations. Yet she admits that \u201cI force myself to sit at the table, even when I am not sure I belong there.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/fullfocus.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/sh.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1920\" height=\"1280\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-39397\" srcset=\"https:\/\/fullfocus.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/sh.jpg 1920w, https:\/\/fullfocus.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/sh-600x400.jpg 600w, https:\/\/fullfocus.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/sh-1400x933.jpg 1400w, https:\/\/fullfocus.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/sh-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/fullfocus.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/sh-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/fullfocus.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/sh-1200x800.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1920px) 100vw, 1920px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>One thing is clear: You are not alone. Contrary to what we might think, being successful isn\u2019t a result of never having a moment of doubt. If anything, it is a result of admitting the feeling of being an imposter\u2014and yet still working and achieving and succeeding. The next time you are in a meeting or a conference and feel like you are just faking it to make it, look around the room and realize this: Everyone else who is successful like you feels the same way.<\/p>\n<h3>3. Embrace the fact that you are enough<\/h3>\n<p>Once you accept the existence of self-doubt and realize that others feel like imposters, too, you can see that you are more than capable of fulfilling your purpose. A key step starts with applying\u00a0Apple Founder Steve Jobs\u2019 famed adage that \u201cyou can only connect [the dots] looking backward.\u201d Often, it means looking at your past successes, as well as previous episodes of adversity, and how they can help you tackle the challenges and opportunities ahead.<\/p>\n<p>Another step lies in realizing that you are smarter, more talented, and more influential within your circles than you think you are. This means trusting your vision and instincts. After all, they helped you make past strides as well as avoid pitfalls that could have hindered your progress.<\/p>\n<p>Finally, you should stay true to yourself. Authenticity is an overused word. But it is critical when it comes to dealing with self-doubt. Says former Xerox CEO Ursula Burns: &#8220;I realized I was more convincing to myself and to the people who were listening when I actually said what I thought, versus what I thought people wanted to hear me say.&#8221;<\/p>\n<h3>4. Keep learning and growing<\/h3>\n<p>But as I noted earlier, self-doubt isn\u2019t all bad. When utilized as a tool in professional and personal development, it can help you grow in all aspects of your life.<\/p>\n<p>Self-doubt can help you admit that you may not know everything you need to take on the next challenge. So seek out books on the matters you are now undertaking. After all, there is nothing new under the sun. Also, seek out counsel from trusted sponsors, mentors, and loved ones so they can be part of your growth.<\/p>\n<p>Another value of self-doubt comes in the form of humility, that much-needed antidote to the hubris and arrogance that has destroyed many a man and woman. Accepting your own uncertainty about yourself helps make you more-tolerant of the shortcomings of others around you. It can even be useful in your own role as a mentor to the generation of strivers who are coming right behind you. 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