Sometimes the best things that happen to us come totally out of the blue. We don\u2019t plan them, seek them, or try to make them happen. They just show up. So how do we make the most of these happy accidents?<\/p>\n\n
One of my team members was telling me about a biography of the essayist Montaigne. It\u2019s called How to Live<\/a><\/em> by Sarah Bakewell, and it was a big bestseller a few years ago. But here\u2019s what\u2019s amazing. It all started as a fluke.<\/p>\n In the back of the book, Bakewell says she discovered Montaigne because she was traveling in Europe and the only<\/em> thing she could find on the train in English was a copy of his Essays<\/a><\/em>. This is going to be terrible, she thought. But no. Not only was the book highly entertaining, it also created the possibility for a whole new direction in her life.<\/p>\n I\u2019ve had similar things happen in my own life.<\/p>\n Three years ago, I spoke at John Maxwell\u2019s event, \u201cA Day About Books<\/a>.\u201d Normally, after a speaking engagement like this, I\u2019m spent. I go back to my room at order room service. As an introvert, the last thing I want to do is be with people.<\/p>\n But this time I agreed to have dinner with a guy named Stu McLaren<\/a>. I had met him briefly several months before at Blog World<\/a>. To be honest, I was dreading the meeting. I knew that Stu wanted to pitch me on some opportunity, and the last thing I thought I needed was another opportunity.<\/p>\n Boy, am I glad I followed through and met with Stu anyway. It literally changed everything in my business (more about that in a minute).<\/p>\n Whatever the size or scope, we all have those kind of moments, don\u2019t we?<\/p>\n Whether it\u2019s meeting our future spouse or business partner, stumbling into a new passion or pastime, or that moment when a whole new business model hits us one morning in the shower, serendipity is real.<\/p>\n But here\u2019s the important thing to remember. Serendipity is not enough by itself. You can\u2019t bank on it, and it can sometimes lead us astray. So how do we make the most of these happy accidents?<\/p>\n The way I see it, there at least four ways to maximize the windfalls we all experience.<\/p>\n Whenever we discover something new, there\u2019s a lot of excitement and enthusiasm. And that\u2019s perfect. We need that energy to fuel the curiosity it takes to really learn the ropes.<\/p>\n When I first started blogging, tweeting, and scoping I was just experimenting and having fun. There was no pressure to make an immediate decision about the future. For all of us at this stage the idea is to figure out the angles, see what works, and explore the different ways we can use our windfall.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n As you\u2019re getting clarity about next steps, you\u2019ll need to set goals and milestones about how you\u2019re going to proceed.<\/p>\n Beyond that, if the windfall means significant impact on our career or family, we need to count the switching costs. What will it mean for us professionally, relationally, and so on?<\/p>\n I had to answer exactly these kinds of questions when I decided to leave the CEO seat at Thomas Nelson and become a professional speaker and writer. In the beginning, blogging and speaking were more like hobbies. Then they became profitable sidelines. But I still had the security of my day job, and deciding to step out was a risk that required serious evaluation.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n Flex.<\/strong> This is all about our willingness to change course if we need to. Maybe we want the windfall to amount to more than it really does. Or maybe we\u2019ve misevaluated the costs.<\/p>\n Flexing with new realities is critical. I had tons of fun doing my daily Periscope show, #VirtualMentor, but in the end that kind of daily time investment didn\u2019t serve my longterm goals and so I changed my approach.<\/p>\n But here\u2019s what\u2019s critical. The willingness to flex not only keeps us from wasting time and energy, it also keeps us open for even better things.<\/p>\n I love public speaking, but travel imposes a high cost. So when I had that fateful meeting with Stu and he told me he wanted to help me launch a membership site, I realized I could retool my business for online training and instruction.<\/p>\n Platform University<\/a> and eventually 5 Days to Your Best Year Ever<\/a> came out of that decision. It\u2019s been huge for my professional and personal life and helped tens of thousands of people. More importantly, Stu has become one of my best friends, a trusted advisor, and a partner in several of my businesses.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n We all get surprise blessings, lucky breaks, happy accidents, or whatever you want to call them. The question is this: Do we know how to make the most of them?<\/p>\n\t\tA Fateful Meeting<\/h3>\n
Serendipity: Real But Not Enough<\/h3>\n
4 Ways to Maximize Your Windfalls<\/h3>\n
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The Difference Between Luck and Leverage<\/h3>\n