{"id":28932,"date":"2015-03-21T04:45:51","date_gmt":"2015-03-21T09:45:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/michaelhyatt.com\/?p=28932"},"modified":"2015-03-21T04:45:51","modified_gmt":"2015-03-21T09:45:51","slug":"secret-part-of-bravery","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fullfocus.co\/secret-part-of-bravery\/","title":{"rendered":"The Secret Part of Bravery People Struggle with Most"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"callout\">This is a guest post from my friend Jon Acuff. He\u2019s a <em>New York Times<\/em> bestselling author who just wrote a new book called <em><a href=\"http:\/\/acuff.me\/do-over\/\">Do Over<\/a><\/em>. (I bought a copy for every member of my team!) You can read his blog <a href=\"http:\/\/acuff.me\">here<\/a> and follow him on <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/JonAcuff\">Twitter<\/a>.<\/div>\n<p>I write about fear a lot. I write about more than just rational fears like when you go to Chipotle and try to order queso and they tell you, \u201cWe don\u2019t have queso.\u201d I write about irrational fears as well.<\/p>\n\n<p>People often ask me, \u201cWhere do you get all these ideas about fear?\u201d and they are always disappointed with my answer: \u201cI\u2019m afraid of a lot of things. And then I write them down.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I wish it was fancier than that, but it\u2019s not.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m afraid my <a href=\"http:\/\/acuff.me\/\">blog<\/a> is stupid when I see the cool things other people are doing with their blogs.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m afraid I\u2019m wildly unqualified to give anyone advice on anything.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m afraid to admit I\u2019m a writer.<\/p>\n<p>In the midst of all that fear, I decided to study bravery for my new book <em><a href=\"http:\/\/acuff.me\/do-over\/\">Do Over<\/a><\/em>. I learned a lot in eighteen months. Here are a few things that surprised me:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Bravery is a choice, not a feeling. <\/li>\n<li>Being afraid isn\u2019t failure, staying afraid is.<\/li>\n<li>Bravery has two parts.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>That last one is the least tweetable of the three, but it was the most surprising for me.<\/p>\n<p>We\u2019re taught that bravery only has one part. Like Nike says, you \u201cJust do it.\u201d And that is true. The first part of bravery is, \u201cJust do it.\u201d<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Just write your book.<\/li>\n<li>Just open your business.<\/li>\n<li>Just start a blog. <\/li>\n<li>Just learn photography.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>That step is critical. You have to make the thing, but there are actually two steps to bravery:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Do it.<\/li>\n<li>Tell people you did it.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>If that second part feels easy to you, then you\u2019ve never created something you deeply care about. I can\u2019t explain it, but the more you care about something the harder it is to tell other people about it.<\/p>\n<p>The free online PDF you created just to get email addresses? You\u2019ll mention that thing a thousand times without worrying at all. If someone doesn\u2019t like it you can always tell yourself, \u201cWho cares? It\u2019s just a dumb PDF anyway.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The photo project you poured your heart and soul into? The business you dreamed about starting since you were a child? The poems you carried inside for years? The moment you actually dare to do those things, fear will launch a new campaign against you.<\/p>\n<p>It will say things like:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Don\u2019t be so self promotional.<\/li>\n<li>Don\u2019t bother people with the things you created.<\/li>\n<li>People don\u2019t care about what you built.<\/li>\n<li>What if they laugh at what you did?<\/li>\n<li>What if they don\u2019t like what you made?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>So books that are brilliant stay stuck on laptops. Businesses the world might have loved close their doors. Dreams die quiet deaths in forgotten notebooks.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let that happen to you. Tell us what you\u2019ve done. Share with us in creative ways why it matters to you and to us. Be excited about the work you have finished. (Tweet it and tag me @JonAcuff so I can be excited too!)<\/p>\n<p>And do step two with as much focus as you invested in step one.<\/p>\n<p>My wife challenged me on this idea recently. She said, \u201cIf you think I\u2019m going to let you hide your new book, after the work you did to create it, you don\u2019t know me very well.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019s right. We shouldn\u2019t hide the things we create.<\/p>\n<p>Be brave.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s easier to write motivational blog posts than it is to actually do what they say, so I\u2019ll go first so you know I\u2019m all in, too.<\/p>\n<p>I wrote a new book. It\u2019s called <em><a href=\"http:\/\/acuff.me\/do-over\/\">Do Over<\/a><\/em>. It\u2019s about building your dream with the four investments every amazing career and adventure has in common. I think it\u2019s the best book I\u2019ve ever written.<\/p>\n\t\t<aside class=\"tweetable tweetalign_center\" style=\"width:100%\">\n\t\t\t<blockquote>\n\t\t\t\tThe more you care about something the harder it is to tell other people about it\u2026Be brave.<cite>Jon Acuff<\/cite>\n\t\t\t<\/blockquote>\t\t\t<ul class=\"actions\">\n\t\t\t\t<li class=\"icon-arrow\"><a class=\"icon-twitter\" href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?source=tweetbutton&text=The%20more%20you%20care%20about%20something%20the%20harder%20it%20is%20to%20tell%20other%20people%20about%20it%E2%80%A6Be%20brave.%20https%3A%2F%2Ffullfocus.co%2F%3Fp%3D28932&via=michaelhyatt\" title=\"Share Quote on Twitter\" target=\"_blank\">Tweet<span> Quote<\/span><\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/aside>\n<p>I think you should <a href=\"http:\/\/acuff.me\/do-over\/\">pre-order it today<\/a> so you can get the awesome bonuses that are available until April 1. (I\u2019ll even send you a digital copy of the entire book weeks before it comes out so you can start reading it right away!)<\/p>\n<p>Forget just pre-ordering one copy, I think you should <a href=\"http:\/\/acuff.me\/do-over-bulk-order\/\">order bulk copies<\/a>, get the ridiculously awesome perks and give one to everybody you know.<\/p>\n<p>If you don\u2019t though, that\u2019s okay.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m still going to be brave. I\u2019m still going to do both parts of bravery, and I hope you will too with whatever you create.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I write about fear a lot. I write about more than just rational fears like when you go to Chipotle and try to order queso and they tell you, \u201cWe don\u2019t have queso.\u201d I write about irrational fears as well. 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